So is it ok, or just a haha I'll show him?!? Does it even matter?
As I watch a friend of mine go through a break up, I am doing what any friend would do. I am showing up to make sure she isn't crying all day, getting her out of the house and trying my best to make her laugh. I listen to her cry, get angry and push past the break up. I have been through a couple of break-up's with her and I know she will get past this even though, right now she can't see it, but she will. I know in a month or two she will be ready to hit the gym and look like her amazing self. She will do what many of us do, she will wake up one morning tired of wallowing in her depression and ready to be a whole new her!
When she is ready she will do what many of us do. get out there and be strong, confident and transform ourselves into that person we know we are! It will be a new hair-do, losing weight, new make-up, new wardrobe, new shoes, counseling, a new hobby. It might be a million things or just one change, but it will make you feel confident, powerful and alive. So does it matter that we have to change after anything major, like a break up?
I don't think it does, I think it is our expression that we made it through, that we didn't let it ruin us. Its our way of showing ourselves that we can survive and flourish. That what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. So I don't think it really matter why we make ourselves over, if we are doing because we are truly wanting to feel better for ourselves. If we are doing to it to show that we made it through our tough times. If your doing it just to show off, out of anger it will never work. So make sure if your making over yourself, that its for you and only you! YOU need to shine from in the inside out!
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